Divorce Mediation in Florida: All You Need to Know

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Divorce can be emotionally draining and legally complex, but there are alternative methods to resolve disputes that can minimize conflict and streamline the process. One such method is mediation. In the state of Florida, mediation is a widely utilized approach for resolving divorce and family law matters. In this guide, we'll delve into what mediation entails, how it works in Florida, its advantages, what happens during mediation sessions, and more.

What is Mediation?

Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution (ADR) where a neutral third party, known as the mediator, facilitates communication and negotiation between divorcing spouses. Unlike traditional litigation, where a judge makes decisions on behalf of the separating couple, mediation allows couples to take control of the outcome of their divorce by reaching mutually acceptable agreements.

How Does Mediation Work in Florida?

In Florida, mediation is mandatory for divorcing couples before proceeding to trial, unless a judge has determined that a history of abuse in the relationship creates an inappropriate balance of power which is not conducive to fair negotiation. Both parties, along with their respective attorneys, meet with a mediator to discuss and negotiate various aspects of their divorce, such as child custody, asset division, alimony, and more. The mediator does not impose decisions but instead helps the parties explore options and find solutions that work for everyone involved.

Reasons For Divorce Mediation In Florida

  • It fosters better communication and cooperation between spouses to find solutions that benefit all.
  • Solutions are tailored according to the divorcing spouses' situation. When children are involved, tailoring child custody arrangements can be hugely beneficial, and this flexibility isn’t always offered in court.
  • It resolves issues relatively quickly by identifying disagreements immediately and potentially eliminating escalation of conflicts.
  • It is cost-effective compared to a lengthy battle in court. Litigation fees can be costly; divorce mediation is often more affordable because it involves fewer legal procedures.
  • Confidentiality is guaranteed, allowing privacy for spouses to discuss sensitive matters - unlike traditional court proceedings.

Advantages of Mediation:

  • Control: Parties have more control over the outcome compared to leaving decisions to a judge.
  • Cost-effective: Mediation is often less expensive than litigation.
  • Faster Resolution: Mediation typically takes less time than going through the court system.
  • Confidentiality: Discussions in mediation are confidential, promoting open communication.
  • Less Stress: Mediation is generally less adversarial and confrontational than litigation.
  • Preservation of Relationships: Mediation can help preserve relationships, especially when children are involved.
  • Customized Solutions: Parties can craft creative solutions tailored to their unique circumstances.
  • Voluntary: Although participation in a mediation prior to trial is not usually voluntary, the parties are not required to reach an agreement and may impasse if the process is not working for them.

What Happens in Mediation?

During mediation sessions, the mediator facilitates the transmission of offers between the parties, encouraging them to express their concerns, priorities, and desired outcomes. Typically, the two sides are not in the same room, which allows the parties to speak freely without fear that the things they say will harm the negotiation. The mediator may use various techniques to help parties communicate effectively and explore potential solutions. Once agreements are reached on all relevant issues, the mediator helps formalize these agreements into a legally binding document.

What Happens if You Don't Reach an Agreement in Mediation?

If the parties are unable to reach an agreement through mediation, they may proceed to litigation. However, mediation often helps narrow down issues and clarify priorities, even if a full agreement is not reached. In such cases, unresolved issues can be addressed through the court system.

What Does a Mediator Do?

A mediator acts as a neutral facilitator, guiding discussions, clarifying misunderstandings, and assisting parties in generating options for resolution. The mediator does not provide legal advice or make decisions for the parties but helps them communicate effectively and work towards mutually acceptable solutions.

How to Prepare for Mediation:

  • Gather Information: Compile relevant financial documents, custody arrangements, and any other pertinent information.
  • Identify Priorities: Determine your priorities and goals for the mediation process.
  • Stay Calm and Open-minded: Approach mediation with a willingness to listen and compromise.
  • Consult (or Retain) an Attorney: It's advisable to consult with a divorce attorney before or have one representing you during your mediation to ensure your rights are protected and to receive legal advice.

Frequently Asked Questions about Divorce Mediation:

Yes, agreements reached in mediation can be legally binding if both parties consent and the agreements meet legal requirements. This has to be done in writing.

The duration of mediation varies depending on the complexity of the issues involved and the willingness of the parties to negotiate. This can take anywhere from one session to multiple sessions, and sometimes even scattered throughout the divorce proceedings (Our shortest mediation took two hours, while one of the more contested ones took multiple session across several days).

Unless the other side agrees, third parties, other than forensic experts, are not permitted at mediation sessions. In some cases, parties may bring a support person to mediation, but this should be discussed with the mediator beforehand. Your support person should ideally be your attorney!

The mediator is trained to handle difficult situations and can help facilitate communication even in challenging circumstances.

Yes, if mediation is unsuccessful, parties can proceed to litigation to resolve their divorce issues.

While not required, having a lawyer could provide valuable guidance and ensure your legal rights are protected throughout the mediation process, making sure that the settlement is legally acceptable and having somebody to help fight for your interests.

In Florida, participation in mediation is mandatory in nearly all cases. Refusal to participate can have consequences, such as sanctions.

Yes, mediation can be effective even in high-conflict divorces, as long as both parties are willing to engage in the process and work towards a resolution.


Divorce mediation offers divorcing couples in Florida an opportunity to resolve their disputes amicably, efficiently, and with greater control over the outcome. By engaging in open communication and negotiation facilitated by a skilled mediator, parties can craft agreements that meet their needs and the needs of their families. If you're considering divorce or facing divorce proceedings, consulting or retaining a professional divorce mediation attorney can help you navigate the process and achieve a more favorable outcome.

Learn More About Divorce Mediation In Florida

To learn more about divorce mediation in Florida, contact our team of divorce attorneys here at the Divorce & Mediation Law Firm | Cabanas Law Firm at (954) 945-7504 or schedule your Free 15-Minute Case Evaluation through our website. We look forward to hearing from you soon.

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Sergio Cabanas, Esq. founded the Cabanas Law Firm in 2006 and provides Divorce and Family legal services, as well as Estate Planning, to ensure his clients have planned for their newly single life and are protected after their divorce. He began his career in law in 1992 as a prosecuting attorney at the Broward County State Attorney’s Office, then continued his litigation track as an insurance defense attorney defending medical professionals against medical malpractice claims and expanded into disability and life insurance claims. Sergio is a Certified Mediator registered in the Supreme Court of Florida and a frequent speaker in the community about the importance of Estate Planning to keep families out of probate court and to prepare essential instructions in the event of disability or incapacity.